Showing posts with label Monday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Monday. Show all posts

Monday, 20 May 2013

The Monday bike ride.




When I was in school I hated these lessons of dragging words out letter by letter.Now that I am older it now follows me around on a Monday, dragging out the word and slowing down my voice, the time, the bug that is flying by reminding me that this is only the beginning of a loooong week. We put such a focus on a Monday because it is the first day after the weekend where we find ourselves right back where we were on Friday, working. For everyone that feels this way I think there comes a time when a person must at least try and change that focus.  
This is not at all easy as we tend to do just the opposite, we try and not have a focus on Mondays.
We love to Call in sick on a Monday, talk on the phone endlessly , browse the internet or do some online shopping. We go to the bathroom often and discuss all the details of our weekends with our colleagues while our employers sits and waits for results. Less productivity in the workplace means less money in their pockets and we as Monday haters are causing exactly that but so what. 

So what do you do? I don't think it is at all about what you do, I think it is more about how you plan to do it. Yes we might find Mondays awful but what about the other people out there that does not. Monday to them is like any other day, a happy day, a day when dreams still comes true, why?

1. Believe in what you do. Whatever it is you do each day of your life, somehow you are directly or indirectly dealing with people. Someone like a construction worker, building safe homes for the future, a waiter making someone else feel good by the words they speak. Even a job considered so low like garbage disposal means that you are keeping people healthy and protecting the environment  Ask yourself the question, what if there was no one else but you who believed it? 

2.Encourage others. Negativity is common and something you can easily step on. Whether your workload is high, or the deadlines are approaching, shifts are getting longer don't get negative and tell others to rather refrain from working at a place that is like yours. Is it not better to make that person believe that he can do so much more with the talent that he was given?

3.Do not show defeat. On a Monday keep smiling even though every part of you wants to be at home, what impression does it give to your superiors if you and your whole department is walking around mourning for  a weekend that passed away. Rather be the one that motivates, make it nice, buy some lunch or have cake, try  and be the better person. It will show who you really are and management will pick up on that. 

4. Prioritize. Organize your week, keep tabs on what needs to get done and remind others, this way the week might seem a bit more in control. We tend to walk around sometimes thinking, what is next? What can possibly make my week any worse? If you keep your mind organized, yourself in check and know that surprises can still strike and believe that you are ready for anything, Monday and the week should be yours. 

5. Take a breath. Don't push yourself like a steam train to rush through work on Monday, it never helps as rushing causes mistakes, and mistakes leads to trouble. Take it as a normal day, don't sit and watch that clock thinking, maybe if I keep myself extremely busy time will fly by. Time is not standing still as we believe, so get through the day just like any other, focus, focus, focus and when needed breath, get up and take a break. 

Monday will always be a funny day and I believe it is not as much as what we do on a Monday, it is how we plan on doing it like i said. Rather start off good than ending bad knowing that next week or even the whole week will be the same. No matter what you do it all comes down to knowing what you are capable of and staying positive no matter what comes along. You write your own story, it is just the path that will differ from the one to the next. Think of Mondays as a bicycle ride, it comes with it's fair share of hurdles along the road but don't give up and stop half way, you might just miss out on the view ahead. 

Monday, 29 April 2013

A walk of thought

So it is Monday and the start of a new week which means more work and meetings and customers, and...and...and. I usually start my week by thinking the same thing, like this week I must write three short stories of 8000 words each for a client and honestly my brain is still in weekend mode so the energy is not yet there at all.



I normally go after something kind and motivational on a Monday, choosing a different piece each week just to get me going and I thought it is worth sharing with you.

"And so, dear heart, it is time for your restoration. For there is One greater than your Enemy, One who has sought you out from the beginning of time. He has come to heal your broken heart and restore your feminine soul"
The Ransomed Heart by John Eldredge

'He's always there...
To bear the burden,
To share the hours,
To strengthen the heart.
Our loving Lord,
Our faithful friend,
The one who cares...
He's always there.                                            

      Author: BJ. Hoff

No matter what you believe there is always something to find that will inspire to you and if there is not, just be grateful for what you have like your kids, a roof over your head, the fact that you have a job. Focus on the things that matter.

Holidays will come eventually to appreciate it even more. :-)

Hope this touched you today,

Johan

Sunday, 28 April 2013

A View of a day

Today is all set up and ready to go after my usual coffee in bed. It is birthday time and we are going to share it with Shavonne. I am looking forward to lasagna and nice beef stew, cake and more. Just what you would expect from a Sunday lunch.
I hope you are doing something nice today as well, nothing like a Sunday to spend with family or just stay at home having much needed rest or visiting a mall for some window shopping.

Sunday also means prep for Mondays so the week does not catch you as a surprise, nothing being ready, chaos in the house etc.
As much as we enjoy our family time, make sure you stay in control of household things during the weekend and not letting anything slip past you. I am not saying pretend to be a cop I just mean handle stuff like you would in the week but just more relaxed. Know that your not working is big motivation already.

Well for now enjoy the rest of the weekend because you deserve it. That is all for now.

More tips on beating the Monday blues:
http://www.wikihow.com/Beat-the-Monday-Morning-Blues